Tara & Erik

When: 19 अप्रैल 2027
Where: The Wedding Venue

Forty of us, one long table, and a fjord out of the window. Not too much, not too little.

RSVP The Day

A red boathouse on the shore of a still fjord at dusk

Welcome

We wanted a wedding we could actually be at.

So Tara and Erik are keeping it small: the people we would call at three in the morning, a house by the water, one long lunch that turns into dinner. No stage, no seating chart, no rush. If you are reading this, you are one of the forty.

thank you for coming all this way

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Lagom

Just enough.

There is a Swedish word for not too much and not too little. We have tried to plan the whole weekend around it.

More of

Long conversations
Time to walk by the water
Home cooking, served slowly
Grandparents in the front row
Afternoon coffee and cake

Less of

Speeches (two, both short)
Outfit changes
A stage
Plastic anything
Gifts — please, none

So far

Our story

Oslo, 2020

A seat by the window

A café with one free table, and two people who both wanted the window seat. We shared it. Three cardamom buns later, we were late for everything else that day.

2021 – 2025

A small flat, a big table

A one-bedroom flat with a dining table far too large for it. We hosted everyone we knew at that table, and decided that whatever we did next would have one just like it.

Summer, 2026

On the ferry

Midnight sun, a cold ferry deck, and a question he had practised in two languages. She answered in a third. It was yes in all of them.

Two days, slowly